Sunday, October 03, 2010

Viaje de Descanso a la Casa San Pablo

What an excuse to get away.

The Friendster Team went on a team-building activity in Casa San Pablo, San Pablo City in Laguna. Having teen-aged kids, I took my sweetie along for the trip. Well, I needed help in case the kids (the Friendster team, that is) went rowdy and needed a mom…haha.

Living in the south has its privileges. We didn’t need to wake up so early since San Pablo City was only an hour-and-half’s drive from my place. We met the rest of the team at Seattle’s Best in Caltex, just before the Sta. Rosa exit of the South Luzon Expressway (SLEX).

There are actually two ways going to San Pablo City from the Calamba exit. One is through Calauan via Pansol in Los Banos, Laguna. The other, which me Sweetie took, was via Sto. Tomas in Batangas. Coming from Sto. Tomas, Casa San Pablo is at the right side of the street where the main Puregold entrance is located.

Casa San Pablo was formerly called “Kay Inay”(Mother’s). “Inay” was the endearing term for the grandmother of Boots Alcantara, Casa San Pablo’s owner and resident manager. The place is almost unnoticeable from the main street except for its old steel gate with a security guard. Casa San Pablo covers a huge tract of land in the city. The Alcantara family used to own that one-hectare property before selling it to Puregold recently.

Upon entry, the security guard shall guide you to the parking lot. Walking through a path, the swimming pool is the first refreshing site you see. Crossing a small footbridge over a creek, you’re guided to the main reception area which is like your old grandparents’ lanai where old furniture abound.

The rooms are strategically spread out in almost cabana style. Boots said that the rooms were originally designed by popular potter Ugu Bigyan of Tiaong, Quezon, who’s a an old friend. “That was before Ugu decided to concentrate on doing pottery,” Boots confided with a smile.

Walkway entrance

Trellis entrance

Old iron marks Room 8

Other rooms

Lanai, Lounge area

Sweetie

Casa San Pablo in itself is art. Besides its interiors and furnishings, the paintings and little works of art abound. From the red paper mache horses on the small study table in the living area to the old Lambretta scooter somewhere at the back of the dining hall, everything’s worth a camera shot.The rooms have their own personalities. One was even decorated with Boots’ collection of Matchbox cars. Many paintings and sketches were done by the famous Saturday Club (of artists) who meet Casa San Pablo once-in-awhile for their sessions.

Our Room

Hammock break

The boss is working

Bric-a-brac

There are hammocks tied to pine trees in the garden. At night, candles in small bottles light the place, making it almost surreal. The big garden leads to the Alcantara’s residence where Mommy Vinya lives. Boots jokingly told us that, “My mom is Casa San Pablo’s official guest relations officer.” Indeed, she is. Mommy Vinya was the first to greet us when we arrived. It’s as if you came home to your Lola’s house.

Ýummy food!

Working

Just pictures

Dining at Sulyap

Sweetie & I @ Sulyap

Dining area @ Sulyap

Old stairs

What’s Casa San Pablo without the food? Again, the home-made cooking will always remind you of your grandparents in the province — with a touch of San Pablo’s style and taste. And when I meant the food was super “sarap,” this meant all meals. It’s even as if Lipton’s hot tea tasted more delicious there.

During our brief stay, there was a retreat being conducted for the Southridge School. Our host Boots said he even gave a talk. Interestingly, the rooms and dining halls of Casa San Pablo can be arranged to fit small and big groups alike. Our room was even turned into a honeymoon suite!

Sweetie with Mommy Vinya

Alcantara residence

A pose with Boots

A Lambretta scooter

Besides retreats and seminars, there are many other activities that can be done in Casa San Pablo: videoke, frisbee, stargazing, billiards, and in-room or group massage. For those wanting to catch up with the outside world, there’s free wi-fi. (Yey!)

Scenic Sampaloc Lake

Sampaloc Lake & Mt. Banahaw

The Boatman @ Sampaloc Lake

Since Casa San Pablo is part of the Viaje Del Sol chain of suggested tourist places to go in the south, there are a number of spots to visit, and use Casa San Pablo as your home for a few days. Nearby is Sampaloc Lake, Sulyap Restaurant and Ugu Bigyan’s House.

In all, Casa San Pablo was worth the trip. We went there to re-charge. And re-charge we did.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Anna Marie Velasco Text Scam


“An angel crying for help.”

Wow, what a tag line! This SMS scammer should have been a copywriter for the advertising industry. It pinches the heart, doesn’t it? Then again, beware!

I received this text (in Fiipino) through my Globe number last January 25, 2010:

“Pued po b akong humingi ng 2long sa inyo? I’m marie, 21yo fresh grad po from Bacolod City. Gagawin ko po ang lahat ng kapalit na gusto nio, ma2lungan nio lng po akong makapunta sa mynila.My job hiring n asana po kc ako jan sa san mig-ortigas, syang po kc kung madissolve lng..Im willing to take the risks ng kpalit na hhngin nio. Un nlng tlga pgasa ko na mkluwas kgd pra mhbol deadline ko po. My pic & supporting docs po ako sa http://www.mariebacolod.tk – marie”


In my terms, it was “tagos sa puso.” I worked for San Miguel before and was sure this was indeed a great opportunity for new grads. If you had the money to give for fare for the sake of charity, why not? Forget the part “she’ll do anything in exchange” as it is so un-Christian. So I checked her site and read it. I researched on the web and alarm bells already sounded. It was a scam.

A few days later, this is the text I got:

Name: Marie Velasco
Age: 21
Birthdate: Feb 21, 1987
Height: 5'7"
Complexion: Fair
Vital Stats: 35-25-36
Hair: Long and straight
Other: joined some provincial pageants for allowance
Course: BS Information Management (Computer and Accountancy)
School: DOST Scholar in University of St. La Salle – Bacolod
Parents: Anna and Mario Velasco (both deceased)
Picture: www.mariebacolod.tk

So I just played along and texted back and asked how I could help and this was “her” initial reply:

“My deadline na po sana kasi ako dis coming Feb 1 po.. 9am sa San Miguel ITServices department pos a ortigas. Junior IT Specialist po ung position na inaapplayan ko.. Sayang po tlga kc dhl related sa course ko.. Final briefing nlang po sana..”

Then I asked how much money was needed for fare, “her” reply was:

“Depende po kung saan nio ko pasasakayin.. Barko o eroplano po? Ung boat fare sa superferry is 2,350 po with 4 trips per week. Monday, wed, fri and Sunday po. While ung plane po is 3,268 with 3 flights EVERYDAY po”

By this time, it was obvious that this scammer has cut-and-paste answers. The actual fares were really cheap. The deadline was supposedly February 1 so the option of taking the boat was out of the question as it will take 2-3 days to get to Manila from Bacolod City. Besides, the fact that it takes the texter between 12 to 24 hours to respond means that “she” is not really that desperate and changes SIM cards, the one being used to scam not a permanent one.

Here are the websites the scammer built for a tinge of legitimacy:

www.marievelasco.tk
www.mariebacolod.tk
www.avelasco.cjb.net



This text scam dates back to June 2008 from the first time a blog about it was posted and many other earlier posts on the subject. It has been active the whole of 2009 till this year as per my personal account.

Be careful out there my good-hearted friends. Wolves abound.

-Homer

Some links to other posts on the Anna Marie Velasco Text Scam:

http://makeuseoftime.blogspot.com/2009/03/annamarie-velasco.html
http://docmnel.com/2008/06/04/anna-marie-velasco-another-scam-in-the-making/comment-page-1/
http://menardconnect.com/2009/08/01/sms-scam-marie-velasco/comment-page-1/#comment-2417
http://kokoro15.multiply.com/journal/item/35
http://bluemaldita.livejournal.com/13298.html
http://blog.richardorlino.com/2009/12/the-anna-marie-velasco-scam/
http://www.filipinowriter.com/marie-velasco-mag-ingat-sa-manlolokong-ito

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Because You Never Forget Your First

by Raymond Virata (from Filipinas magazine, USA)
published August 2009

Despite the worldwide economic downturn and an increasingly competitive market in the social networking sector, industry pioneer Friendster has expanded its operations in the Asia Pacific. According to an article in mis-asia.com by Zafer Anjum, the company’s staff is now mostly based in the region and 80 percent of new employees in 2009 will be based there.

While Facebook and MySpace took over the U.S. market, Friendster never keeled over; it just moved to Asia. It’s now king in the Southeast Asia region, where 89 percent of its traffic is based. (See “Friendster moves to Asia,” by Ling Woo Liu, http://www.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,1707760,00.html/). The main reason Friendster was able to establish a beachhead in Asia is because Asian Americans who caught on the social network craze in the U.S. were able to include their friends and relatives across the Pacific in their network (http://venturebeat.com/2008/06/18/ friendsters-growth-in-asia-could-make-it-the-top-social-network-in-the-world-once-again). This international connection is supported by the fact that 23 percent of an average user’s friend is in another country. Friendster is popular in the Philippines, Malaysia, Indonesia and Singapore. It has dominated the Philippines ever since its launch (http://www.techcrunch.com/2009/06/07/a-map-of-social-network-dominance).

Operating in the Philippines since 2006, Friendster expanded its staff in 2009 to strengthen its direct sales and marketing muscle. Homer Nievera, business development director for Friendster Philippines, says that the sales team “directly taps into clients as well as work with resellers in ensuring that all potential advertising avenues are tapped.” Their marketing team holds localized activities targeting their users.

“Friendster enjoys the fact that it is the pioneer in social networking in the Philippines. User experience have also been quite positive specially regarding Friendster’s user friendliness—it is easy to personalize and customize, which is a great hook among Filipinos, particularly the young user segment,” says Nievera.

A 20-year advertising veteran who previously worked for MSN, Nievera says, “My work in Friendster Philippines is focused on getting as much revenue as we can from various sources, primarily through advertising and sponsorships. Together with marketing, mobile and even product development, our team also helps craft revenue-generating projects that are apart from direct advertising. Our team is headed by Narciso Reyes III, the Country Sales Head (Philippines), while I also partner with Paula Abjelina, senior account director-Philippines.”

The social networking site has 40 million registered Philippine-based users. On a monthly average, there are 24.4 million unique visitors, who log in three-five times a day and spend an average of 22 minutes per log-in. Almost half (48 percent) of these users are young adults (18-24 years old).

Despite the willingness of the Filipino market to jump on new trends, Filipino consumers are brand loyal, according to a consumer report by TNS Philippines. This explains why Filipinos have stuck it out with Friendster.

An Election Powerbase

To take advantage of its user clout, Friendster positioned itself at the forefront of the upcoming Philippine elections in 2010. The site will soon come out with updates and links to the national candidates that shall be made available to its users, many of whom are within the youth voting segment. This project, called the Youth Voice, aims to rally the youth to actively participate in the elections, just as Barack Obama’s campaign utilized social networking sites to help him win the U.S. presidency.

Pinoy Friendster Day

Out to prove its claim as the biggest social networking site in the Philippines (and in Asia), Friendster will be holding a Pinoy Friendster Day on August 15 at the Mall of Asia. Friendster is gunning for the Guinness Book of World Records for the Biggest Eye Ball Event in the world. The event will top-bill Rico Blanco (formerly of Rivermaya) for the concert and other big bands, plus a variety of activities including a fireworks display.

Saturday, October 03, 2009

If You Only Knew

You have crossed my mind a dozen times today
You who can make my day.
It’s an unexplainable kind of thrill;
The way you make me feel.
If you only knew how short life really is
Would you still live the way you do?
For those who have lived and seen time go
There can never be second chances;
Just decisions to love, hold or let go.
Oh my heart aches so much to realize
That some things shall never be
Though somehow wishing they can still come true
It’s like living, breathing just for you.
I pushed you back because I knew
You deserved someone better, someone new.
But now I try to hide the pain;
It’s really hard that I try to hide in vain.
You only see the smiles and hear the laughter
But never see how crushed I am inside.
I missed my chance when I deliberately lied
Telling you I didn’t want to be with you;
When in fact I cared so much and wanted to
But was careful I won’t be stealing you;
For I could not take your happiness away
That was meant to come your way.
So today in my heart I decide to let you go
Hoping maybe someday you will know;
That for simply being you
Someone was ready to fall in love with you.

(homer nievera)

Kung Nasaan ang Puso

Minsan iniisip ko nasaan ako
Nangangarap lang ba o sadyang totoo
Naroon ka at nandito naman ako
Ngunit tila abot-kamay ang puso mo.

Nakakatuwa kasi ang iyong ngiti
Bungisngis palang ay nakakabighani
Ang dami naman d’yan kasing mapipili
Bakit pa nga ba ako nagbabakasakali?

Sa kuwentuhang walang pinatutunguhan
At kahit animo’y sinasadyang bolahan
Tila alamat na walang pinagmulan
Na alam nating may pinatutungkulan.

May koneksyon ba tayo sa isa’t isa,
O nabulag lamang sa silaw at kaba?
Heto at pilit ngang kinakapa-kapa
Kung saan ba talaga ‘to mapupunta.

Madalas kong ibulalas, “bahala na!”
Pero di naman madali ang “tara na!”
Kaya sa nais iukit ang tadhana,
Kinukumbinsi ang sariling wala na.

Kaya’t kahit saan man ako lumisan,
O ikaw na mismo ang magdadahilan,
Alamin ang sarling puso’y nasaan,
Tinitiyak kong ako ay naririyan.

(homer nievera)

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Obra Maestra

Simpleng haplos ng 'yong kamay
Ayos na agad ang lahat.
Matamis mong titig
At dampi ng matamis mong halik
Dulot ay di mapantayang kaligayahan.

Sa lubos na sigla na dulot mo sa buhay ko
Doon pa lang panalo na ako;
Paano pa kaya ang pagpipinta
Ng 'sandaang kulay na nagpapasigla
At pumupukaw sa dating tuyong damdamin?

Isang larawang obra maestra --
Ito marahil ang pag-ibig natin.
Likha ng Maestrong Pintor ng buhay
Di kayang pigilan ng bagyo't unos
Umiigting sa paglipas ng panahon.

Minsa'y iniisip ko kung paano na lang,
Kung di kita natagpuan?
Saan kaya pupulutin ang ligaya?
Sino ang magbibigay ng masasayang kulay
Kung wala ka sa 'king buhay?

Ngayo'y naniniwala akong magpapatuloy
Ang pagpipinta ng 'sang obra maestra
Dahil habang ika'y nasa piling ko
At ako'y di magbabago
Parang malaking obra ang ating mundo.

Silipin Ang Puso


Hindi madaling ipakita kung ano ka sa akin,
Di naman ako ang tipong may-dating.
Nararamdaman ko'y malayo sa nakikita mo,
Kung alam mo lang ga'no ako kabaliw sa 'yo.

Di naman ako tipong pa-impress na tao --
Di lang talaga ako ganoon.
Nanaisin ko pang ipakita ang mga pangarap ko
Para lubos mong maintindahan kung sino ako.

Silipin mo sana ang puso ko
Nang makita mo ang laman nito,
Lubos na pagmamahal ang maibibigay ko
Tanawin mo't paniwalaan mo.

Wala namang perpekto kahit magsikap pa
Kaya't may mga oras na nabibigo kita
Pero sana'y masulyapan mo ang laman ng puso
Kaya mo 'tong paikutin, subukan mo.

Nais kong ipangako na lubos kitang mamahalin
Na narito lang ako't maghihintay.
Masulyapan mo lang na ako'y nakangiti
Alam mo ang nais kong iparating.

Kung marining mo sana ang puso ko
Na ikaw ang tinitibok at laman nito,
Iwaksi ko man sa isip ko
Di kayang itanggi na ito'y totoo.

Dumating man ang panahon na ika'y umibig,
Maaaring sa iba ang puso'y bumaling,
Saan ka man dalhin ng tadhana,
Sa puso ko'y may itinabing dambana.

Friday, February 27, 2009

Renovation of Marketing


by Joyette Perez (from The Business Mirror, December 23, 2008)


There are many cool scenarios offered on how our lives will change when computers and ground and satellite-linked networks become commonplace in the home. Households will find it easier to make product choices and place orders for goods and services. They can look up product descriptions on Web sites or monitor comments or carry on conversations in chat rooms. They will visit the sites of information middlemen providers for product information and comparisons. They will use intelligent agents who will learn their preferences in music and film and will make new suggestions, and who will review their e-mail and eliminate junk mail. They will be able to obtain advertising and programming on demand. They will use push technology to keep them informed of various interests.

In an interview, Admax Network business director Homer Nievera stressed that the Internet as a whole has evolved into a truly customer-centric medium probably influenced by its massive reach. Heavy competition composed of traditionally big and so-called garage-based businesses has given birth to niche markets.

“The flood of information and dizzying offers of products and services has led customers to be careful and choosy such that customer service, branding and delivery have been tricky for business owners. Blogs, for instance, have given customers their own bull horns that can make or break businesses. Thus, the key elements for success in the online space is composed of, but not limited to: a strong brand, excellent customer service, effective delivery and innovative technology,” he added.

For consumers, new media will provide easy access to more options. Stress and information overload are likely to increase. While digital channels are now mass targeted, they can easily be targeted, allowing for singular interactions with consumers. New media, including social networks, games, mobile and other digital formats, will continue to attract even larger audiences. Consequently, marketers will shift more of their activities to these channels, using them as one-to-one channels, not as “mass” media.

According to Nievera, Admax Network provides advertisers with a simple and effective digital delivery system to connect with consumers. “The key to our success lies in our network of more than 200 specialty-content Web sites. This audience can be finely segmented—not only by demographics, but also across the more than 20 content channels served by our network or down to the individual site. Thus, not only do we help give the best ROI to advertisers, but also give Web site and technology owners—big or small alike—a fair chance to make advertising money off their properties. In the process, both advertisers and Web sites win.”

Companies must fundamentally recraft their approach to marketing around the features of the new media and digital marketing. While basic marketing principles—such as positioning and segmentation—will remain, digital channels will extend and accelerate how marketers engage consumers.

“Mobile advertising and placing TV commercials online [also called ‘in-frame ads’] through Admax’s network system must be explored and exploited by advertisers. As broadband connection becomes cheaper and wider in reach, convergence of digital media into one single device is not far ahead. This device may likely be the mobile phone or some similar gadget in the near future,” Nievera explained.

Will all companies heed the call to evolve their marketing to improved approaches? Probably not. After all, new thinking requires flexibility, and some find it hard to change. Plenty of marketers would rather go back to the time when traditional media was all that was needed to convince consumers about their products.

But no one can stop the march of progress. Marketers must be ready to face new media with winning plans if they hope to come out on top. In discussions his group had with some advertisers and ad agencies, they said media budgets such as in print are being scaled to be used in digital media in 2009. Besides experimenting with the new medium, they are confident of delivering a better ROI for their advertising money with metrics they can track in real time. Should advertisers capitalize on online and mobile media for 2009, things will definitely look better for the advertising industry.

“Today, to get ahead of the game, education is key. More and more clients are asking their ad agencies to tell them more about digital media. Some answer with creative executions that merely wow but do not involve much strategic positioning. They sometimes forget the science behind much-needed reach and frequency or the power using the right media at the right time. Fortunately, technology has driven digital advertising to a realm where even the consumers’ online behavior toward an ad can be tracked or measured—in real time,” he explained.

No doubt traditional media will still play an important role for years to come. However, the shift to new media is not a short-term trend; it is the inevitable result of a series of deep, long-term structural changes. Consumers’ personal preferences and configurations will be known to marketers at a variety of touchpoints. To be successful in this environment, you will have to be ready to make a step-change; small experiments will no longer suffice.

Nievera has been recently appointed as business director of Admax Network in the Philippines. He has moved from sister company Impaq Interactive, where he has led the team in growing the Microsoft advertising business. He brings 20 years of advertising expertise with specialties in strategic marketing and communications, guerrilla selling and business development.

The company’s diverse network of more than 400 Web sites connects brands to over 47 million consumers targeting 15 different content categories, including business, travel, autos and more. Launched in 2006, Admax Network, a subsidiary of Digital Marketing Solutions Group, is Southeast Asia’s leading site representation and advertising network of local and international Web sites, with operations in Malaysia, Singapore, Thailand, the Philippines and Vietnam

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Life Isn't by Chance

Purpose. This is what life is really all about.

If you haven't found yours yet, don't be so hard-pressed in finding what it is. It will come to you. Purpose in life is sought out or sorted out. It simply finds you wherever and in whatever state you are.

I was five years old when I had this sudden feeling of panic. I was so young then but when I gazed upon the setting sun through a window of our small Makati City apartment, it hit me -- "What am I here on earth for?"

The sun, so big and majestic on it's heavenly place, represented the mighty Creator. It seemed to look down upon me. I imagined the billions of people on earth who might have thought the same. The sun looking upon each and every being on earth. Amazing how God saw us on an individual basis!

If that was so, would life unfold just by chance? Could we really do anything and not be noticed? Not a chance for sure!

Everyone and everything that we do MUST have a purpose. Even the people we meet and make part of our lives have a reason.

There are no mistakes in life. They normally are planned bumps on life's road or in many instances, detours. Happy victories are not because of our individual circumstances or by coincidence. They are part of the plan. You see, if you believe in a Supreme Being who has created each and every cell in your body, then you should wonder "for what purpose?" He has a plan -- an individual plan, that is.The only thing that will make things go "wrong" is when we defy "the plan."

I have always believed that the most important thing created in us is the heart. This is where the "will" resides. The "will" is both God's will and our own that drives us to our direction. I believe that God's plan and timing are ALWAYS PERFECT. Nothing He does will be by accident. So we are definitely not here by accident. We just need to examine our heart more to know of our purpose. Remember, God resides in and speaks through the heart. Listen.

Our conscience is our compass. It is not connected to our brain but is wired to our heart. It works on a database of experiences and learnings. Thus, if we just meditate and pray for wisdom and discernment, we will definitely know where and when to go. As timing is also crucial, this bit has to be specifically prayed for as well.Just remember that prayers are always answered. We just have to accept the answer even if we don't agree with it.

Choices. Why are we always faced with crossroads? This is the exciting part of life. This is also a gift that God has given us. We are free to choose what door to open or what road to take. Scared to choose which door to open or which road to take? Pray. Listen to your heart. Besides, even the angels had their choices, right? One chose to be king and above the Creator and was given the key to hell.He should have stayed loyal to His Creator instead.

So life which resides in all of us isn't by chance. Let's not wait till we're in mid-life to ask ourselves "where to?" but instead always pray and seek your heart on "where to now?"
It's the "now" that's really important. Yesterday ended last night and tomorrow may never come.

Throw the dice away. You don't need it.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

That Joy You Bring





Joy is the word I would describe
The way I feel about you.
It might be because of your charm
That accompanies your smile,
Or the way you do your hair
That captures me to a constant gaze.

You astonish me with your wisdom;
And the strength of your soul
Encompasses my world,
As nothing in me and within me
Escapes the aura of stillness and calm
That you bring into my life.

I am enchanted by your inner being.
Happiness rules your life.
Your faith and will are impregnable.
Your naive but complete honesty
Betrays the innocence of your heart.
There lies the strength of your character.

Tomorrow may bring sadness,
But surely it will never overcome
The joy you continue to bring into me
Tomorrow may bring sadness,
But surely it will never overcome
The joy you continue to bring into me
For there will always be more days
Of sunshine than rain
Knowing you’ll always be around.

(a poem I gave my wife Jinky for our anniversary in 2006)

Sunday, November 02, 2008

The 10 Commandments for Those Over 40

1. Focus on enjoying people, not on indulging in or accumulating material things.

2. Plan to spend whatever you have saved. You deserve to enjoy it and the few healthy years you have left. Travel if you can afford it. Don't leave anything for your children or loved ones to quarrel about. By leaving anything, you may even cause more trouble when you are gone.

3. Live in the here and now, not in the yesterdays and tomorrows. It is only today that you can handle. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow may not even happen.

4. Enjoy your grandchildren (if you are blessed with any) but don't be their full time baby sitter. You have no moral obligation to take care of them. Don't have any guilt about refusing to baby sit anyone's kids, including your own grandkids. Your parental obligation is to your children. After you have raised them into responsible adults, your duties of child-rearing and babysitting are finished. Let your children raise their own offsprings.

5. Accept physical weakness, sickness and other physical pains. It is a part of the aging process. Enjoy whatever your health can allow.

6. Enjoy what you are and what you have right now. Stop working hard for what you do not have. If you do not have them, it's probably too late.

7. Just enjoy your life with your spouse, children, grandchildren and friends. People, who truly love you, love you for yourself, not for what you have. Anyone who loves you for what you have will just give you misery.

8. Forgive and accept forgiveness. Forgive yourself and others. Enjoy peace of mind and peace of soul.

9. Befriend death. It's a natural part of the life cycle. Don't be afraid of it. Death is the beginning of a new and better life. So, prepare yourself not for death but for a new life with the Almighty.

10. Be at peace with your Creator. For... He is all you have after you leave this life.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Give Back, Find a Friend

In true friendships, one has to know when to be the giver or the recipient.

Love is the foundation of friendship. It is like water that needs to be poured into a glass, represented by the heart. There has to be careful balance. When you keep on giving love and nothing comes back to you, you feel empty.

Be sensitive to the needs of your friends. If you are the type who's always in need of love and attention, you will soon find out that your friends are diminishing. You would have sapped all of their love that nothing's left as you don't give anything back. They'll have to find that love from someone else.

If you've been deeply hurt from past relationships or were abandoned, and haven't really been able to recover from it, you would've have failed to love yourself. You will be lonely. The solution? Love yourself first then it will be easy to love others. You cannot give what you don't have.

God, the giver of life, wants us to love Him back. That's the sole purpose of our existence. As we are made from God's love, having the same love for others means bringing the love back to our Maker. The circle of life is the circle of love.

Thus, true friendship is all about filling the other person with attention, fellowship, encouragement, care, trust, and even touch. Connecting, like love, is two-way. If you get a simple "hi" or a forwarded message from a friend, a simple "thank you" would be enough. You have to make your friend feel that you care as well.

Isn't it that whether you laugh or cry together with a friend, you feel refreshed? Or when you share a story, a reaction of a nod or smile is fulfilling enough? That's because the communication is shared. There is a connection.

That is why whenever I would find someone who wants to give more than he or she would take, I would want that person to be my friend. I know I can give back something, anything.

It is easier to love a friend who loves you back. It makes the relationship last. Find a friend who can love you back, you've got a friend for life!

Looking for more friends? Give something back.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Can We Be Real Friends?



I always ask myself this question whenever I invite or get invited to be a friend with someone I’d “virtually” meet online. I have more than 600 friends in Facebook, more than 300 in Linkedin and a couple more in Friendster. I’d say, of almost 1,000 friends – social or professional – I have personally met only 100 of them. Is that a bad thing?

Technology has driven the way we communicate and associate with people. When what was supposed to create more time and space for us to be “free” has actually caused us to cram more things into our lives. Now, our lives are so cluttered that we don’t even have real time for real people.

Time is a valuable commodity. Sadly, it’s not renewable. We can’t even buy it. No matter how much money or connections we have, we simply can’t influence time. True to the old adage, time waits for no one. Thus, given just a few minutes to socialize, we meet, greet and keep our friends in online space. Then again, are they real friends?

We have used the online social and professional networks to connect and reconnect. We’ve found former classmates, officemates, friends, and maybe even lost loves. With photos and albums galore, we have found a way to share our lives to others. We have found virtual space to share our trials, triumphs, notes, journals, status, availability, ability, faith and hopes. These are the things that remind us of our needs as human beings.

I love coffee shops. They were made for personal conversations. They were created so we can just sit around, enjoy a cup of coffee and watch people and the world go by. Like the coffee that warms your lips, coffee shops make you feel the warmth of people around you. Friends that you make over a meal or a cup of coffee are seemingly for real. Yes, they can also break your heart. But they’re for real. What you see is what you get.

What about my online friends – are they for real, too? I’m talking about friends whom I have never personally met in my entire life. It’s either I invite them or they invite me. After which, I say a casual “hi” or greet them on their birthdays. I also comment on their notes, blogs, journals or status. I just want to somehow interact with them, even if it will only take me a few seconds or minutes of my time. As long as I have shared a bit of my time with them, I consider them as friends. Well, I am for real. I don’t really care if they aren’t.

Guess what? I have made some real friends online. I have even been invited to their birthdays, weddings and family gatherings. I’ve even godfathered some in their weddings and children’s Christenings.

Technology may have changed the way we interact with others today. What hasn’t changed is the need (read as: urge) to genuinely connect. Hopeful that every human being we meet online is the real deal, we’ll never stop connecting and reconnecting. We were wired to be social beings. That’s who we are. So, I guess it won’t really matter if my online friend is genuine as long as I know I am. That is my nature. Maybe even human nature. That is what really matters. I have a conscience. I have a heart. Most of all, I have a soul. Now that's for real.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Making of a Salesman


Some of my friends call me Homerun.

Besides having "Homer" as my first name, they have coined the term as a recognition of my sales career. Having had numerous hard-won victories in my long sales career, companies hire my services when a heavyweight batter is needed to create and push sales teams. Advertising has been my home stadium though some industries such as IT and recruitment have hired my services to create and make their organizations conducive to sales homeruns.


At 40, I think I've seen it all. I mean I have been able to profile who would be great salesmen and sales managers. I have spotted them and have been able to coach and mentor many mavericks.This leads me to what many have asked me through the years: "Are supersalesmen born or made?"


Let me tell you my story.


I believe I wasn't born into sales. I didn't even recognize the gift of gab. As a kid, I wasn't talkative or even had the trappings of a young politician. I never networked. I had a handlful of friends or playmates and that was it. I used to write poems and believed I was a loner. But living in a small rented apartment near a squatters area in Makati City, this little kid had big dreams.

Finding a Personal Need or Want

I used to play with penlight batteries replacing toy soldiers which I didn't have. I once picked up a plastic toy cyclist on the street and had it as my first favorite toy. It was the mid-70's and a small plastic red helicopter I fancied was worth 80 centavos. My dad didn't want me to buy one though. Maybe we couldn't afford those extras or maybe he simply wanted me to just concentrate on my studies. I also wanted playcards known as "tex" but I didn't have an allowance to save up with. We were studying in private schools but I believe all our money went into our "privileged" education in Don Bosco Makati.

One day in school, I saw kids claiming deposits for bottles of Yes Cola softdrinks and Vim Chocolate drinks they bought for recess. "Hmmm," I thought. We had some old Vim bottles at home hidden under the old sink. A lightbulb lit up in my little kid's brain -- "maybe if I claimed deposit on them, I'd get some money." I did.

That single incident sent me into motion. I searched for bottles in school and at home to sell. Well, I was able to buy that red plastic helicopter. But I didn't stop there. I bought the playcards as well.

Lesson learned: find your personal need or want. What drives you towards finding a way for you to satisfy that need or want? It may be a car or house you've been dreaming of having. Or your new born baby whom you want to provide the very best.

My bosses have always given me or my teams sales targets or quotas. I give my sales teams dreams to fulfill. I usually would ask each sales person what would s/he want to buy or have by the end of the year. Whatever answer I get, I'd tell the sales person that that would be his or her target in terms of commissions or incentives s/he would like to earn. Simple enough, huh?

So when I promised my wife that I'd buy her a house and two cars before I was 30, I worked hard to make sure I kept my promise. I was into media sales for a global publication and I was 27 when I made that promise. In two years and at age 29, I fulfilled that promise.

My practical advice? Dream big. Make it happen.

Being Enterprising

I loved Choc-nut when I was a kid. Since I didn't want to blow all my earnings on toys and chocolates, I tried to think of a way to make more money. An aunt once told me that if I bought Choc-nut by the box at a store near the wet market, I can save 80 centavos per box. I asked my friends, classmates and even our househelp if they would buy Choc-nut from me at a lower price than the store's. Of course they said yes. Thus, everytime I bought Choc-nut, I literally ate my profits -- 80 centavos worth of Choc-nut. At 5 centavos each, I ate 16 pieces per box, then replenished my stock. I was now both filling a want or need by buying and selling Choc-nut. I moved a notch higher and became enterprising.


But since I wasn't making real profits as I ate them, I had to find a way to increase my money. I found a way through renting out comics.I noticed that many students in Don Bosco were being fetched 2 to 3 hours on average after dismissal in the afternoon. Some were into sports and games while many more were bored waiting for their "sundo." I laid out about a dozen comic books one time and rented each for 10 centavos. On the side, I played tex. Each week, I replenished my stocks since my parents bought us kids (we were 3) new comics every Sunday. Inventory replenished weekly, in about a month, I was able to earn 400 pesos. That was big during those years when a jeepney ride was only 10 centavos. As an entrepreneur, it is always important to learn about inventory, cashflow and target market.

Lesson learned: be enterprising. Find what others need or want, then fill them. I believe that we will never run out of needs and wants as we create new ones each day. Technology and media are two of the most influential sources of these.

My practical advice? Be creative but grounded. If you can find opportunities in problems, then you're well on your way.


Salesmanship + Entrepreneurship


In high school, I sold subscriptions to Reader's Digest and World Executive's Digest. It was by chance that I saw an ad soliciting community representatives to both magazines. Besides my fancy in reading those magazines, I found out I could earn extra by just sharing them with others. I stumbled upon the basic concept of being a salesman.


At first, I used my basic network: family friends, relatives, and co-workers of my parents. I asked for referrals and those referrals gave me their own referrals. Soon, my network grew -- and so did my income. But you know what? I loved it more when my network of friends and acquaintances grew. It's as if I broke out of my shell.By college at the University of the Philippines (in Diliman), I was organizing rock band concerts and contests, selling jewelry, and wholesaling eggs.

I wanted to be a musician but didn't have much interest in the long hours needed to practice the guitar. I thought of going one step higher -- I produced the shows myself. So, together with some friends, we organized campus rock concerts and band contests. Some projects failed but we carried on. It was fun anyway!One day, I stumbled upon an ad in the classifieds looking for young people who might want to sell a new line of fashion jewelry. The concept was direct selling under the master trainer Harry Pound (who I would be working with again 18 years later). I was 18 then. I invested a few hundred pesos and pushed on to be become the youngest sales supervisor in the company's history.

On the side, I also wholesaled eggs which came from an over-production at the Magnolia Farm. It was a short-term opportunity. I hired a salesman -- our houseboy -- on commission basis. Making the rounds of the community "sari-sari" stores and the small public market outside our village, I was able to make good money for more than a year.


What was good about my venture into the eggs business was my having trained our houseboy into a being a salesman than as a full-fledged entrepreneur. From selling commodities in the Zapote Public Market, he now grows, manages and sells cut flowers in Dumaguete City. He uses a one hectare land of the seven hectares my mom owns. This was my first mentoring and coaching experience, just before I graduated from college.


In my sales ventures, I was refused a lot of times. However, I was relentless instead of frustrated. Whenever I got a "no," I always found ways for my prospects to say "yes," may it be for me to simply repeat their name and ask them if I was right. Somehow, those little "yeses" moved closer and closer for them to say "yes" to my sales pitch. Also, I had to make sure that I got to present to more people till I got a "yes" so as to lessen the impact of the number of "nos" that I received. As I always say, "sales is a numbers game." The more pre-targeted prospects you have, the better your success ratio becomes.

Lesson learned: salesmanship with entrepreneurship is about managing your frustration levels creatively and with determination. Failures will always be part of the sales process. It's not how many times you fall, but the number of times you get up is what matters. Be strategic. Pre-target as many prospects as you can before making the actual call. Also, success is sweeter if you've been able to learn from your previous mistakes.


My practical advice? Work smart, instead or working hard. Do your homework. Learn about the product or service you will need to sell before hitting the streets. Know about your target market. Go first for niches.


Years of Learning and Practice

Right after graduating at the University of the Philippines with a Communications Research degree, my first job right was again selling magazine subscriptions and book sales, though this time to both corporate and individual clients. I even won a silver award in my rookie year, besting the veterans. I practically did building sweeps besides getting endless referrals. I also began to understand the need for targeted or niche prospecting. Instead of doing a shotgun approach to finding prospects, I did them by industry. This technique I still do until this day. I refer to it as a street-by-street and block-by-block guerilla sales approach. Traditional, but still massively effective.Wanting to try my hand at advertising, I cut short my sales work and got into McCann-Erickson Philippines, the top ad agency at that time. After two years learning the ropes in both media and account management for the San Miguel Beer account, I was taken in by San Miguel Corporation's Magnolia as it's very first Media Coordinator. Both experiences have opened the doors for me to learn more about strategic marketing techniques from my mentors Ting Jarme (my former boss and Account Director at McCann) and the late great marketing genius Bert Anido (my former boss and Marketing Director at Magnolia).


I realized that if you wanted to learn how to do strategic selling, you've got to learn marketing. I did not only learn basic marketing, but I attended lots of seminars, read numerous books and practiced what I learned. I even fell in love with marketing communications as a sub-specialty. This, I acquired due to my love of media.

As a media coordinator at Magnolia Nestle Corporation, I had four ad agencies who supported my team of three. Four media managers were at the forefront of these hot agencies of the early 1990's servicing our account namely Emma Deloso of J. Romero & Associates, Bing Aragon of PAC/BBDO, Jon Gatbonton of Ace/Saatchi, and Suzanne Capistrano of McCann. I loved my support team. They were my mentors, especially Emma who was so patient with a 22-year old media head as a client. Candidly, she taught me a lot. Both Bing and Suzanne were to move onto the supplier side while Jon was destined to be Saatchi's top media honcho. Emma would later be a media consultant.

My work allowed me to meet a lot of media suppliers. One particular TV blocktimer, whom everybody fondly called Tita Glo, became close to me. I even made her a godmother in my wedding. One day, she asked me a favor. She wanted me to go with her to meet rock n' roll great RJ Jacinto. She was offered to market his FM radio station in Manila. Politely turning it down, Tita Glo told RJ if he instead wanted to hire me. RJ offered me the job right there and then with a big smile on his face. He gave me the terms privately and I accepted. That was the start of my media sales career.


Now armed with a media and marketing background, I plunged into advertising sales for DZRJ-FM as marketing director. I was 24.

When I arrived at the RJ Ventures office in Makati Avenue, I was a bit shock by the adhoc nature of the sales and marketing organization. There were two freelance marketing agents and I had to build the team from scratch. I had to bring in a fresh team of young and good-looking guys and a lady who looked as if she came out of a fashion mag. I got my college friend Will Maligalig from the radio station of GMA-7 to lead the team as Sales Manager. We had a formidable team. I got Robert Velhagen (who eventually became ABS-CBN Marketing Director), Jude Garcia (who went on to become Aliw Broadcasting VP for Marketing), and two others -- Paul and Claire (forgot their last names). Eventually, Anna Cawaling, one of our freelance marketing agents, left to set up Target Marketing with my old friend Winnie Baling, selling cinema spots. Only the veteran Marsha Cacho, the other freelance agent, helped my young team market RJ.


In 6 months, we were able to turn the company around. We helped build the station into a 6-station network. Admittedly, Will was a big factor in pushing the sales promotions into unprecedented heights. We had back-to-back movie premieres in Silence of the Lambs and Robinhood Prince of Thieves. From a rock n' roll format that was shunned by advertisers, we were able to create a funky niche in our "Good Times" slogan. Ramon Jacinto's DZRJ and Bistro RJ became a hit among the oldies and the yuppies.

Lesson learned: go to a field that you will come to love and enjoy working in. Along the way, study your craft more than what's required of you to learn.

My practical advice? Don't learn the tricks of the trade, learn the trade. Find a mentor.


Sales as a Passion


When I was hired by the Asian Sources Media Group (now Global Sources) to be the Country Sales Manager for the publications World Executive's Digest (a.k.a. WED) and Trade & Travel magazines, I believe that's where I found my passion in sales.When my old friend Bernia Jiao, then WED Marketing Manager, asked me if I would be interested to be the sole sales rep for the magazine, I was excited. I have been a fan of WED since college. I sold subscriptions of the magazine and knew its readership profile. However, I was to pick-up ad sales from a 15-year marketing arm. "Tough act to follow," I thought. Sales were also in the red. A reversal of its trend. In my mind, it's another turn-around task. This time, it's a tougher industry -- publishing! I was also up against regional and global sales managers as WED was now part of a global publishing group. Oh, and I was alone. The stakes became higher indeed!Resorting to fervent prayer more often, I geared up for an uphill climb. I was relentless in my calls and forged partnerships with some high-value clients for long-term deals. After 4 years, I looked back and saw a 500% increase in sales. We were also already in the black and I was eventually awarded a Sales Person of the Year Award besting other nationalities. As far as I know, I was (and still am) the only Filipino who got that award. I also realized that 80% of my sales came from 20% of my clients -- the Pareto principle!


Having moved into various media including that of dotcoms, billboards, TV, and even a stint in recruitment sales, I realized that success comes with passion. It is waking up everyday embracing the prospect of a deal. This is where the adrenalin rush comes from. It's in the negotiations and crafting of proposals where the mind works more than the tongue. It's when after each presentation, faith sets in.


Lesson learned: many sales persons lose the game when they lose the passion. If you can spring back into action despite a setback, that's passion. If you're mind races into imagining solutions while the client is briefing you on their challenges, that's passion.


My practical advice? Be genuinely concerned in helping a customer or client find a solution to their challenges. See through those challenges as opportunities. In the end, it's how you got to closing the sale is what matters. This is where learnings come from. You solve a client's problem, you got a sale for your company. Think win-win -- genuinely.

Communication

We used to scribble on paper scrolls
And chiselled figures on a wall
With a stick we drew on sand
And even signalled with our hands.

With smoke we talked across the hills
And wrote letters with inks and quills.
As soldiers waved their flags in battle
The Scotsman blew his worthy bugle.

Mighty Morse took his code to flight
With the telegram putting a worthy fight.
A postcard sent was a quicky hello
An airmailed letter was unusually slow.

Fast-forward now to the telephone
To the facsimile that required a tone;
Leap-frogged the pager to the cellular phone
With Internet, communication's still a long way home.

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Trail of the Boomers










Born in the last trail of the boomers,
When flowers were equal to power,
And everyone feared a nuclear shower,
Has the world changed for the better?

When television was in black and white,
Or ideals were either left or right,
Letting the big boys pick a fight,
Have we changed the value of might?

As rock and roll was being aired,
And Hollywood was being bared,
As many mothers’ teary eyes stared,
What price for blood was really paid?

Many more were born after us,
But there’s still division inside a bus,
We nurtured love of wealth as a must,
Now where’s the culture of trust?

Counting the silver and grey hairs we see,
Many more dreams that could never be,
If only fifty more years had we,
Can the captive nations truly be free?

Watching leaders and nations rise and fall,
We’ve always seen the writing on the wall,
We can still make our final call,
And be the generation that did our all.

Monday, December 31, 2007

Strange Stories, Amazing Pics

Ever since I was a kid and having lived in our house in Las Piñas City, our family has experienced strange happenings and have heard of similar stories from friends in our village. For many years, we have both believed and denied the spirits' existence since nobody has really taken a picture of these beings -- until this year, 2007.

The Duwendes

The first occurrence happened when, as an 8-year old, I came with my dad to inspect our house which was then almost finished. When we went around the house (which was smaller than it was today), my dad noticed that the hole reserved for an exhaust fan was covered with a glass window (jalousies). The carpenters were earlier instructed to just cover it with plywood. Well, first, we have no jalousies cut for that hole. Second, the jalousies had small fingerprints on them. We suspected "duwendes" (or dwarfs) which the local folk said abounded our place. There was also a time during the house construction that our camera was knocked down from a make-shift bench without anyone touching it. Hmmm...so what about our finished house having been photographed and when the film was developed, it showed an unfinished house? Then when the house was re-photographed with a carpenter in it, the film was okay? At one time, my sister's friend who slept over in her room woke up to see a small man in a dwarf's outfit pushing the buttons of the TV in the room. This poor girl never came back to our house. My young mind accepted it is a fact that we simply had to live with these little creatures from another dimension.

Of Ghosts and Spirits

Years after having lived in our house, many ghost stories have been shared among family members and house helpers. These spirit encounters became more frequent after our house was renovated -- and blessed three times!

One personal encounter was when, at 17, I was on the phone with a friend who I didn't know has been dead for 3 days already. It was a Saturday, the day of her funeral. When I was about 24 years old, I was throwing old stuff into a metal trash bin in my upstairs room. I took fancy in burning them. As I went down the stairs, I heard the voice of my brother telling me to come upstairs quick! One of our housemaids heard the call, too. As we were half-way towards the hallway leading to our rooms upstairs, I told our housemaid to freeze. I told her, my brother was in his dormitory and not in our house. So who was that voice? We decided to go up the room an hour later to confirm my statement.

These occurrences and other weird ones went on till I got married with my wife and kids encountering the same. We moved to our own house 5 minutes away more than 10 years ago and still, even my brother who visits from the U.S. once in awhile still goes through these strange encounters. Again, we never were able to confirm through a photograph or video of the "culprits" until this year.

Here's a picture from a cellphone photograph by my daughter of her sister during one of the sleepovers we had while our house was being renovated. Notice the woman in the lower right side of the photograph. My daughter actually felt a sting in her eye when the photo was taken. She surmised this due to the "hair" of the woman who flung herself beside my daughter. The color of the "woman" is pale and seems to be asleep or "dead." There even seems to be a scar on the woman's right side of her face.


My brother told us that he has seen a woman's spirit many times in the house. Usually, in front of a mirror or looking out a window. Is this her?

Here's another picture, this time taken by me in the house of my wife's cousin in the village across ours. Notice the picture of a small female at the lower right side of the photograph. My cellphone was used for this.


We were told that the cities of Parañaque, Las Piñas and Muntinlupa traverses a kingdom of "duwendes" and that spirits are among us. Whatever the theory, the photos do not lie. I'm no expert in these things, and am not a prankster.

Believe 'em or not.

Friday, December 28, 2007

DFA ala-Divisoria

We went to the Department of Foreign Affairs (Philippines) yesterday morning (December 27, 2007) to have our passposrts renewed. We've heard raves about the faster cues in that very important department of the Philippine government (given the millions of OFWs leaving the country each year).

What greeted us was a sea of people similar to a what Divisoria looks like during the Christmas season. Whoa! Why was I not surprised? The swarms of people were actually on cue! The lines snaked through the whole street that was located at the back of the DFA building along Roxas Boulevard in Pasay City. The parking on the side street was difficult but at least there was a parking space. That's being positive.

People brought their kids along. These made things worse. Though they said there were separate lines for children and senior citizens inside the building, that didn't matter at this point. All one silly guy had to do was to shout "Sunog!" or Bomba!" and that would result in a terrible stampede maybe close to the ULTRA incident of Wowawee.

I brought my wife and two of my three kids just in case things were really smoother contrary to my suspicions. Well, after wading through the sea of humanity in a 5-minute walk to the end of the line and after 10 minutes trying to stay on line, we decided to call our travel agent and pay twice the price for an appointment to be set by our agent. We had to wait for an appointment but I guess the point of it all was to make sure I didn't put my family in danger.

I wish the good DFA Secretary, Alberto Romulo, would take time to stroll the backstreet of his office and see what the picture I included here really looks like. The picture was taken from the starting point of the line.

Let's give our people the respect and proper service that they deserve. Most of those who were there were either current OFWs or those to-be. Their contribution to the Philippine economy is tremendous and heroic.

As for me, I'll wait for my appointment. Even if that means PhP 1,800 out of my pocket, I'd rather pay up than take the risk.

Let's do a better job guys.

Sunday, December 17, 2006

Christmas and the Joy of Giving



Christmas is a celebration of giving. For many years, this day has been synonymous with Jesus' birth and that of giving gifts. As a child, Christmas also meant Santa Claus and Noche Buena. Today, with kids of my own, I still view Christmas the same way as I did as a kid -- but with a huge difference.

Before, it was I who was the eager recipient of other people's generosity. Today, me and my family sponsor and organize the annual Gawad Kalinga-Sibol Christmas Party. This is our fourth straight year.

Last Sunday, December 3, we helped organize the Christmas Party of underprivileged kids from two GK areas: Kaingin and Multinational in Paranaque City. It was a happy riot to say the least. My friends Merrick and Maureen Chua, owners of MEC Network Corporation, sponsored the event. We had 64 kids and around 24 adults for a total of 90 people! That was the largest Sibol party we ever organized! MEC's staff and some managers provided lots of toys and give-aways, besides helping out in hosting games.

As a sidebar to this blog entry, let me just point out that for the past four years, not one of our Couples for Christ immediate household has known of this project. Amazing, isn't it? How can an annual big event, involving top leaders from the same CFC cluster or sector not be known by our household? Simple -- we never told them! That's where true blessings lie. Whatever kindness you do in secret, the Father himself will reward you in secret.

God has been good to us. After having us endure financial turmoil for almost 10 years, we're back on our feet again and much more! Our businesses have picked up and I'm in a job that I am enjoying and pays very well. Thus, I simply am paying the Lord a simply gesture of gratitude by making Sibol kids happy.

Looking back, we started giving back to God during the lowest points in our lives. We started giving tithes (10% of income after tax) when I lost my job in RJ. We were also assigned to the financially-draining Gawad Kalinga as pioneer Sibol project managers when we didn't even know where to get our kids' tuition. Talk about giving...until it hurts...no more.

What's the lesson in all these? Have a big heart for those in need, and God will never leave you when you yourself are in need.

Next year, we are gearing towards a pending appointment in Youth for Christ (YFC). Another challenge, another opportunity to serve. What else can I ask for?

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

New Work, New Challenges


Fast-forward to November. Time indeed flies so fast. Two significant things happened since page 3. First, Jinky was operated on her salivary glands to take out the stones. It was a success (though costly) since Jinky was operated on with local anaesthesia only. Second, I got the Manpower job. To say the least, it was a good deal (much better than the other one).

I started on October 2, 2006 at Manpower, a global employment services company headquartered in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. It was my prayer to get back into the true-blue corporate world in a true-blue multinational company. God did answer my prayer. I'm sure, this was also my family's prayer.

Work at Manpower is close to alien to me since the industry is far from my advertising background. Eighteen years is quite a long time to master a field. Thus, shifting to recruitment is not a breeze to say the least. I warned them about that but nonetheless, they still hired me. They said they needed my sales background.

The whole of October I was in induction. It was like being in suspended animation wherein you sort of watch time pass by while your training goes on. Mark, a former colleague from Digitel and his staff of two were good to me. They let me squat in their workstations during my first two weeks.

Last week, 5 days after celebrating my first full month at Manpower, I closed my first contract worth PhP200,000 (about US$10,000). I'm currently on my way to closing my next contract, hopefully, before the end of November.

I admit that going to mass everyday has been key in all the blessings we've been receiving. The mass, being the highest prayer (according to our former parish priest Fr. Nip Frugosa), will always be a major part of our Catholic life. I pray this also shall be for our children.